The thought of traveling makes most people excited. You yearn to leave your home and work for a while and go on an adventure. You have many expectations in your head based on popular culture and imagination.
Most people expect their trips to be nothing but a nonstop adventure to meet exciting and colorful people. They hope to make friends from different parts of the world as they meet strangers on trains and buses. Some solo travelers even expect to enjoy drinks with locals.
Being Alone Overseas
After leaving home, most people find themselves on the road, in hostels, and enjoying cities and fantastic views of attraction sites. They want to do whatever they yearned for when planning the trips. They are excited by their daily activities as they plan their schedules and do things alone.
But, as time goes by, loneliness starts to kick in. Most people find themselves alone in hotel rooms at night. They no longer find strangers to spend time with because they are afraid of mingling with people they know nothing about. Fear makes them realize they are alone. Fear hinders them from living their dreams.
Many people realize that they are alone when they allow fear to take control. But, you can overcome loneliness when traveling solo by recognizing the following:
- Many people travel solo
- These are people like you
- Many people around you are looking for adventures
- Many people around you crave to interact with others
Once you realize this, go out and have fun with others. If staying in a hostel, you can start a conversation with your neighbor. Reach out and break the barrier that’s keeping you alone. Once you start talking to the person next door or the receptionist at your hotel, things will begin to unfold. The connections that you can make and the fun you can have with other travelers will surprise you.
So, don’t let fear make you lonely. Go out there and start interacting and having fun with other people when traveling solo.